Feminism and BDSM
I’ve been getting some grief from the approximately three people who know about my BDSM novella The Locked Heart. To their credit, they read it (in one case, while wearing vinyl gloves) before they...
View Article50 Shades of Grey – A Virtual Luge Ride (& More)
At the very end of Part Three of E.L. James’s 50 Shades of Grey trilogy, there’s bonus material, including a couple key scenes from the very beginning of 50 Shades of Grey (aka Part One), retold in the...
View ArticleThe Frozen Heart
One of my big lessons from releasing The Locked Heart is that everyone has an opinion, and they’re entitled. (Another thing I learned is that it’s better to have people disagreeing with you than...
View ArticleHow BDSM Is–and Isn’t–Like Domestic Abuse
A friend of mine recently suffered through a breakup with her boyfriend. He was your typical schmuck–he belittled her, demeaned her in front of his friends, make her feel cheap and unloved. She kicked...
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